The drama of love that I saw as a child played every night in pubs, is about human "hunger" for safe emotional bond, an imperative for survival facing from birth to death. Once you feel safe online with our partner, we can tolerate frustrations possible - inevitable - they can occur during our daily lives.
We start strongly connected and responsive to our partners. But our level of care tends to decrease over time. Then we experience moments of disconnection (removal), moments in which we express our needs clearly. He is sad, and really wants to touch the unhappiness, but she leaves him alone, thinking that seeks solitude. These moments are inevitable in a relationship. If you are going to dance with someone, sometimes we pressed one foot another.
Although our society dependence as negative behavior, as one weakness, it is not. To feel connected with someone, it provides the maximum feeling of safety and security. It means that you expect your partner to respond when you ask, to make you feel you're important / st for him, that he loves, and to be able to meet your emotional needs.
The most basic principle of the theory of emotional attachment emphasizes that isolation - not just physical isolation, but the emotional isolation - it is traumatic for people. The brain encodes it as a risk. The Gloria Steinem once said that a woman needs a man, as a fish needs a bicycle. This does not apply in any case.
We start strongly connected and responsive to our partners. But our level of care tends to decrease over time. Then we experience moments of disconnection (removal), moments in which we express our needs clearly. He is sad, and really wants to touch the unhappiness, but she leaves him alone, thinking that seeks solitude. These moments are inevitable in a relationship. If you are going to dance with someone, sometimes we pressed one foot another.
Although our society dependence as negative behavior, as one weakness, it is not. To feel connected with someone, it provides the maximum feeling of safety and security. It means that you expect your partner to respond when you ask, to make you feel you're important / st for him, that he loves, and to be able to meet your emotional needs.
The most basic principle of the theory of emotional attachment emphasizes that isolation - not just physical isolation, but the emotional isolation - it is traumatic for people. The brain encodes it as a risk. The Gloria Steinem once said that a woman needs a man, as a fish needs a bicycle. This does not apply in any case.